Bullying sucks.
Let's Abolish It
Only one way exists and no other way could ever work. If you want to stop your child from getting bullied, this is the way. Help us get to 1 million signatures. Your support matters. It's free, and easy, and important.
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The Peace Treaty works to end bullying in schools, workplaces, and online by providing a free, fast, safe, and fun way for people of all ages to make an honest commitment within themselves, to never be the bully, never to adopt victimhood mentality, and to never simply standby while someone is getting bullied. Take this pledge, be serious about it, and bullying can no longer exist wherever you are.
That, is how it works.
And it's the only thing that could.
The Peace Treaty is for kids and adults who are tired of the bullying epidemic. Add your name, make a sincere Oath-To-Self, and put an end to bullying forever.
The End of the Bully War
Whether you, and your family, sign your name to the Peace Treaty, or you saw us do a live anti-bullying speech or presentation in your school or workplace, the benefits are the same.
Focuses on the 3 parts of the bullying epedimic, not just the bully
Teaches students to use assertiveness, rather than aggression, to stop bullying in its tracks
The bully is just one part, but the other two parts are equally responsible
Teaches students how to respond, de-escalate, and how not to adopt victimhood mentality.
To finally end bullying, all three of its parts will have to be loved away
Teaches students to speak up, get help, and no longer stand by while someone is bullied
The only way to change anything, is to change ourselves first
We end bullying by making an oath to remove all 3 parts of bullying from within ourselves. It is the only thing that can be done, and it is the only thing that is guaranteed to work
What exactly do we mean by
"Never a Victim?"
"Never the Victim" does not mean denying the harm, excusing the bully, or pretending it didn't hurt. "Never the Victim" does mean refusing to let what happened define who you are, limit your power, or decide your future.
Victim mentality is when pain becomes identity and helplessness becomes habit. When we talk about "Never the Victim," we are talking about victimhood mentality. We have a lot more to say about that. Continue learning or just jump right ahead and sign the Nate's Glow Peace Treaty.
It's easy, fast, and free.
Step 3
There is no step 3. All you have to do is believe something can be done, and know that the thing that can be done is inside of you. To do this, it takes a certain strength that exists within all of us. It's the ability to self-oath.
The idea of an Oath-To-Self is the backbone, the foundation, and the core principle of the Nate's Glow Peace Treaty. Speaking of Peace Treaty, there is a very important reason why we call it that.
Why do we call it a Peace Treaty?
Sometimes we, as society, come up with new ways to fight this war. Sometimes we try to re-use old ways. Unfortunately, none of these ways has ever succeeded. So, we are not interested in presenting new ways to fight the Bully War.
We are here to end it.
As we know from history class, wars have a formal beginning called the Declaration of War. They also have a formal ending called a Peace Treaty. We are here today to offer the only way to end the Bully War.
The Peace Treaty.
This treaty accomplishes the goal in one easy step. A step so simple, so obvious, that it seems almost peculiar that this is the one step we always seem to avoid. Today, we are asking you to take it.
The only way to remove bullying off the planet; is to remove it from within ourselves. But the bullying issue is made up of more than just the bully. There are two other major parts to it.
You'll have to remove those too.
We accomplish this step with something called the 3-Fold Change.
The Nate's Glow Peace Treaty will show you the way.
How do we remove bullying from within ourselves?
If we truly want to get rid of bullying, we need to admit something uncomfortable. The bully isn't out there. The bully is within. We must admit that at some point, we have all done something that can be considered "bully-ish." Some people do this rarely; some do it compulsively.
But even if a person's inner-bully is small or rarely comes out, there are still two other parts of bullying that may come out all the time. The bullying epidemic isn't made up of only the bully. The epidemic has three parts that equally fuel the ongoing Bully War.
To end the war, the other parts need removed just as much as the bully part.
The challenge is, that no one can be forced to make this change. The change is internal. Each person will need to search their own heart and make the change voluntarily of their own free will. The only thing we can do is to present it to them, and here we are presenting it to you, the person reading this.
Sign the Peace Treaty, sign it sincerely, and help us swell the ranks to inspire others to be a part of something massive and good.
What are the three parts of bullying?
The reason our anti-bully policies, zero tolerance policies, and evidently everything else we are doing to stop our students from experiencing bullying in schools, our employees from experiencing bullying in the workplace, and the rest of us from experiencing bullying in our everyday lives is because all of our focus goes on the bully. Our efforts are, and have been, ignoring the other two equally important parts:
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If we were being honest, we would admit that there were times that each of us has been the bully, the victim, and we have been the bystander. To end the Bully War, we must remove all three parts from within simultaneously. We do this with an oath-to-self.
When we take the three parts of bullying and complete the Oath-To-Self to remove them from our ways, it is called the 3-Fold Change. Here it is:
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Never a Bully
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Never a Victim
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Never a Bystander
Why sign the Nate's Glow Peace Treaty?
We sign it to formalize the end of the Bully War. Students might understand this as something called ratification. We must ratify the treaty. Our signature cannot just be some button we click on the internet; it must be authentic. We must hold anything that we sign our name to in high regard. We must give it reverence. We must be sincere, We must look at signing the Peace Treaty as a solemn oath. A sacred vow.
When you sign the Peace Treaty, you are not making the oath to us, you are not making the oath to your loved ones, you are making the oath to yourself. If you can be sincere in your Oath-To-Self, then we ask you to sign the treaty.
What does signing the treaty accomplish?
Signing it is important because ratification of a Peace Treaty is how all wars are ended. When you take this oath, you are making it real. Real for you. You make it real in your circles. Real in your heart. You make it real in your presence both online and out in the real world. This creates quantifiable change.
But signing it does more than that. Much more. Your signature is like one block in a grand castle. As more and more blocks get added, the castle grows enormous. Soon, others will see its massive size, and it will inspire them to add their block as well. It begins to create something that we build together as a people. This creates an accumulative effect that gains momentum and ripples outward to all corners of the globe. See how important your signature is?
This is where bullying ends.
Signing the Nate's Glow Peace treaty is quick, easy, and free.
We made it like that on purpose.
Here's the Oath-To-Self
Our oath to ourselves
I will not be a bully.
I will not be a victim.
And I will not be a bystander.
I will remove cruelty from my behavior.
I will remove victimhood from my identity.
And I will remove silence from my presence.
The only way to change the world
is to change ourselves first.
After you sign the Peace Treaty
All you have to do is to have respect for any Oath-To-Self you make in your life. If you've taken any oath, for anything, then you adhere to it. No matter what. That's what an oath means. You have the power and the ability to do this. It is probably one of our greatest powers as people.
Signing the Peace Treaty is free and easy. However, our job here at the Nate's Glow organization is not done until we can get a physical copy of the treaty, your certificate, in your hands. Having the physical copy helps bring your Oath-To-Self into your real world. It is something you can hold in your hand and see with your eyes. This helps keep your oath strong.
Did you know?
Ridding the world of bullying is just one thing the Nate's Glow organization is doing. We also do Life Coaching, other Oath-To-Self campaigns, sharing Nate's Message, and we are currently building a pretty awesome Search and Rescue Department.
Click here to see all the things we are up to!